Wen | Dumbbell Mom
When browsing various social news, college students are pregnant.Every parent hopes that children can get better growth in college, but at this stage, college students’ hearts are very contradictory, because they are in the state of half adults, but most of the economic sources come from their parents from their parentsEssenceTherefore, in this state, college students are exaggerated and impulsive people.
Can a girl give birth to a baby during college?Will it be expelled by the school?
Xiao Ai not only had excellent grades, but also harvested her sweet love.During the relationship, Xiao Ai heard a lot of sweet words from her boyfriend’s mouth, but these were not enough to move Xiao Ai, so in order to let her be completely trapped in love, her boyfriend gave Xiao Ai a lot of promises.Under the sweet and ambiguous attack.Finally, Xiao Ai fell, and the two immediately ate the forbidden fruit.
Parents did not expect Xiao Ai to eat forbidden fruit during college. They also believed in their children, so her mother rarely loved her in science.When the school called Xiao Ai to be pregnant for 5 months, her mother stayed on the other side of the phone for a long time.
After hearing this news, Xiao Ai’s parents rushed to school overnight. After the man’s parents and Xiao Ai’s mother discussed with the counselor, they decided to let Xiao Ai give birth to the child and bring the baby to school.At present, universities will not be expelled from students because of their female classmates. If female students are pregnant, they can choose to have babies.
However, Xiao Ai’s life is still long. After graduation, she will definitely meet a better person. Because of a mistake, she will be a mother directly. Xiao Ai’s life misses many opportunities. This is a pity.
If this happens, it is definitely wrong to blame the child blindly.In fact, it is not uncommon for college students to eat forbidden fruits, and it has a certain connection with parents’ education and school management.
So what ways do schools and parents have students to avoid this emergencies?
1. Children should be responsible for themselves, especially female students.
Lin Jia is a good student with excellent academic science. After going to college, she also gained the long -awaited love like Xiao Ai.Faced with the obscure reminder of her boyfriend, Lin Jia was not fainted by love.She said to her boyfriend: "When the timing is wrong, doing that kind of thing is not only irresponsible to the child, but the child’s accident is likely to restrain our future." After listening to Lin Jia’s advice, her boyfriendIt can only be stopped.
After falling in love with, girls are easy to fall into emotional, and the behavior is not very rational. Girls like Lin Jia are rare.Anyone should be responsible for themselves, especially girls.
The physical pain caused by the abortion is far less than the psychological grievances, and some girls will have a certain shadow on the life of the husband and wife.It is often said that the most afraid of is not to meet scumbags in love, but that person makes you feel emotional.
Properly restrain students’ bold behavior.
In the eyes of students, Professor Xu is a kind elder.In fact, Professor Xu teaches history, but he is worried that students will do some impulse when they are in love.Therefore, he often applies for the number of times with the school, and borrows the opportunity to take a moral education lesson for children, and vaguely tells students the consequences of stealing fruits.Professor Xu often said, "Don’t, try not to try" has become the mantra of the students.
The school is a social platform that provides college students. Some schools encourage students to fight for freedom and make themselves more independent.However, some classmates misunderstood this concept and believe that stealing food forbidden fruits is a must -have.In this case, the school is completely responsible for educating students to learn how to be responsible, and the teacher’s persuasion can make these students who are obedient to turn back in time and cliff.
3. Parents should give their children "lessons".
Sister Xu often took "lessons" with the child before her child was in college. The child was at first rejecting these things, but under Sister Xu’s soft and hard bubbles, the child still remembered Sister Xu’s teachings in her heart.In fact, Sister Xu’s course is very simple, that is, I often say to the children: "You must know how to protect herself outside, and you must also be responsible for others."
Many parents think that this kind of education is unnecessary. On the contrary, as long as they do not mention as much as possible, they can avoid harm, but in the end, they will occur like Xiao Ai.Frequently starting in the presence of children, it will definitely arouse the curiosity of the child; but the appropriate education will make the child have a bottom in their hearts. When it comes to love, it will not be too out of love.
If there is a situation where female college students are unmarried, the school and parents should not blindly blame their children.Think about whether he has fulfilled his child to the child before moving.Blind blame will only make the child even more panic, and finally force the child to the end.In the face of this kind of thing, everyone is better to deal with a rational way.But girls should also think about it, holding a big belly to school, is it uncomfortable?